Saturday, May 06, 2006

Calmness

I just discovered 1 thing. Since there are 2 sides to a coin, before we just make a fast conclusion and become biased about someone else, why not just think of the good things the other party has done. This will just help to calm our inner self to think more logically and realistically instead of becoming biased towards anyone at that instant moment.

This week passed quite quickly. The NP day parade. Quite nervous on stage, but became more used to it later on. Last NP day parade. Remembering how I disliked the long parades, now I just wish for that parade feeling to linger on longer, because it will never come back again. Even there is another parade, it will not be the same because the same people are no longer involved in it. The feeling is lost. I think it is only when something is going to be taken away from us that we start to realise its presence and to apreciate its value.The chance will never present itself again. Even if opportunity presents itself again, it will only come in another form, because just like how the rivers flow, time can never flow back. The thing that remains intact is the memories we have, and that's why people always say " let's hope the memories last"

The week also saw a sad incident, the passing away of a young life. Much has been said about it, and I am sure how everyone feels so I wont dwell on the sad part.

The fragaility of life. The priceless value. That same person will never be there, to just joke or be angry with you. It's just all too late to just regret at that time. This not only happens in just that single case, it applies to everyone and everything, because you will never know what might happen next. All we need is to be contended and feel the love of life. At the end of the day, it does not matter where is your next destination, the crucial part is what have you reaped on the way to your destination. That is what you hope to achieve when you are setting your aim in the 1st place, your objective is to learn something,know something, feel something and not look for something.

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