First, it was bai se feng che. Now, its tui hou. Well, that song went up to the top 10 hits of dongl883. so glad that 2 of Jay' songs are up there. I dont quite like the qian li zhi wai. Maybe I got sick of it. haha. For now, its tui hou.
I was just reading this research result, and I realised 1 thing. Attitude and self-confidence is very important to a person. Here is how the research goes...
The researchers gave a maths test to a class of 40 students. Their results were then collated and they were ranked. However, they were kept in the dark about their results and rankings. The researchers then placed them accordingly in 2 classes. The odd numbers in the ranking system were placed in this class A and the even in class B. So, there were the same number of smart and not so smart ppl in each class. The teachers for class A were not as experienced as those in class B.
The result? At e end of the year those in class A performed much better that those in class B.
Why? This is because those in class A believed that they were placed in there because they were successful. Thus, they wanted to continue their success. However, those in class B thought that no matter how hard they worked, they were still not as good. So, they lost confidence in themselves and stopped working towards their goals.
The moral of the story? Self-confidence is very important in everything you do, because it determines whether do you have the fortitude to continue with what you are doing and the results that you show, because self-confidence is the measure of the belief in what you are doing.
But, is it that important to know what others think of us? It is definetly more important to know what we think of ourselves, because we cannot cheat ourselves.
Well, I know I should think of the Os right now, but, yar, when I have some spare time, I cannot stop thinking of what I am going to do after the Os. Hmmmm.... I am going to do all these after the Os. Go to some soccer sch to do some training (mum approved), then learn how to play the pop piano(mum approved), play DOTA with my aunts and uncles, go my baby cousin house and play with him and run ard his house like siao to chase the dog, buy new mp3 player, play wwe cards, play FIFA 07 and NBA, install the DVD burner and new graphics card, watch HK drama shows, go play tennis at my cousin's condo, play arcade and complete time crisis 4, go the gym whack punch bag (lol) and I dunno what else. Like got a lot of things to do. But 1st, the Os. haha
If sincereity,truthfulness and true love is all that I need to have, then you are lying to me all along......
Can you teach me zhe3 me4 'shi1 lian4 xue2' ? Because I need it when you are gone....
Saturday, September 23, 2006
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